It’s ok when your plans change. There are times when your ways of being and moving and growing in the world need to shift. This will happen as you step forward in more masterful ways…as you live more and more on purpose. Your old ways of doing no longer serve you. It’s not that they didn’t serve you before. It’s just that you have upleveled your experience. You get to support the newness in new ways.
It’s easy to slide into a pit of judgments about what was and what choices you can make now. You can choose to think that you’ve been doing something wrong all along and now you are being punished. Or you can see the truth. You have changed. The effort you expend is different, perhaps greater, than ever before. Your purpose has evolved. Your heart has opened. And the manner in which you serve the world and yourself gets to shift.
I see if often…people suddenly hitting an odd little wall after months of rockstar performances. Almost without warning, they are tired. Stuck. Lacking that magnificent motivation that had been propelling them forward. They dive into a pit of self-inquiry that winds up with with them wondering what they did wrong.
Perhaps the question should be, “what have I done so well, that now I need a new infrastructure to make sure that I keep up with all of the awesomeness I have been creating?” It may not mean you need more. Or that you need to overhaul your whole world. But you do need to make the necessary adjustments so that you are super supported in all of your endeavors.
So check inside. Look around your life. What can adjusted inservice to supporting you in the best ways possible? Allow whatever choose to change be done from a place of loving…and know that even than will eventually need to be upgraded.


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It’s funny – I’ll think I’m OK with change in general terms, but almost *every* time I have to deal with specific instances of it, I’m not nearly as calm and equanimous about it as I thought I was!
I think the hardest types of changes of plans for me to accept that it’s time for are the ones where I end up letting down, hurting or disappointing someone else. It can take a *long* time for me to get my courage up around those!
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